What Happens If My Ex Withdraws Their Pension Before a Pension Sharing Order Is Implemented?

Pension: what happens if my ex removes money from their pension before the order is implemented or does not cooperate with the implementation of a pension sharing order?

Pensions have been a hot topic in recent months, with the long-awaited budget changing the rules for employee contributions. From April 2029, the amount exempt from National Insurance contributions will be capped at £2,000 a year. You or your ex may choose to divert some of your salary over the next three years to make the most of this tax incentive to bolster your pension. In England and Wales, all pension assets that are built up during the marriage are taken into account on divorce.

Pensions are often one of the most significant assets for separating couples, after the family home. In fact, pensions are often amongst the most valuable asset in a divorce or dissolution. Even if pension assets were built up during the marriage, the Court will consider the entirety of the pension assets when assessing a fair distribution of assets to meet needs.

Ensuring your pension rights are secure after your separation is extremely important. Many people do not realise that an ex can technically access or draw down from their pension before a pension sharing order is implemented, and when it happens, the financial consequences can be serious. There are legal routes to address this, and acting quickly can make a huge difference.
A pension sharing order is a formal court order required for the division of pension assets, and it cannot be implemented by pension providers without this court order. All joint assets, including pensions, are considered in the financial settlement as part of the overall divorce settlement involving other assets and other marital assets.

What is a pension sharing order

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When you divorce, there are several approaches to dividing pension assets. One of the most common is a pension sharing order. A pension sharing order is a formal court order required to divide pension assets, and it can apply to a range of pension schemes, including registered pension schemes, occupational pension schemes, personal pensions, and retirement annuity contracts. Please see our article here; “How International Pensions Are Divided Upon Divorce” for more information about the other options for dividing pensions.

A pension sharing order provides one spouse with a percentage share (also known as a pension credit) of their ex’s pension pot. The final order should set out:

  • the percentage of pension to be transferred to you; and
  • include wording that your ex should not intentionally claim, draw down, transfer or deal with the pension before implementation of the order.

When does the pension sharing order need to be implemented by?

The implementation period for pension sharing orders is up to four months beginning with the later of the day on which the order takes effect (either from the date of final order in divorce proceedings or 28 days from the date of the order) or the first day the pension trustees receive all the necessary documents.

During the implementation period, the pension provider must transfer the pension share into a new or existing pension scheme, which may include the original pension scheme, depending on the recipient’s preference and scheme rules. Most pension schemes charge implementation fees for pension sharing orders, typically ranging from £300 to £1,500. The implementation period is generally four months from the date the order is received by the pension provider, although some providers may complete the process more quickly in straightforward cases.

What if my ex removes money before the order is implemented?

Pensions are a complex area of law. If your ex removes money from their pension before the order takes effect, correcting the issue becomes complicated.

Each case is unique, however one route to rectify the problem is to apply to court to set aside the order pursuant to the “Thwaite” jurisdiction. In exceptional circumstances, the court could exercise this jurisdiction if an order has not yet been implemented or it has only been partly implemented. In the recent case of AP v TP [2025] EWHC 190(b) the court exercised its jurisdiction under Thwaite to set aside a pension sharing order after the final divorce order had been pronounced, in circumstances where the wife refused to cooperate with the pension sharing order’s implementation and the husband could not retire without access to the pension funds.

Alternatively, if the court cannot set aside the order, you may be able to seek a lump sum to compensate you for the loss caused by the withdrawal. Whether this is appropriate will depend on the type of pension involved, the extent of the loss, and the overall financial circumstances of the case. It is also important to note that even if a lump sum is awarded, you may not be able to pay it back into a pension in full without triggering tax charges or breaching pension contribution limits. For this reason, you should seek specialist legal advice before taking any action, to ensure you understand the most effective and tax-efficient way to resolve the issue. For complex pensions, it may be necessary to appoint a Pension on Divorce Expert (PODE) or actuary to assist with valuation to ensure a fair outcome. Legal representation is crucial in navigating the court process and protecting your interests during proceedings related to a pension sharing order.

Why Early Legal Advice Matters

The longer the delay, the more complicated the problem becomes. Pension schemes have different rules, and the financial impact can snowball if not addressed promptly.

How can Edwards Family Law help?

As a boutique family law practice, Edwards Family Law has a lot of experience dealing with complex pension sharing orders, including resolving issues when someone transfers money out before implementation.

Divorce Day: New Year, New Beginnings?  

The media have coined the term “Divorce Day”. This is the first Monday in January and this year falls on Monday 6 January 2025. “Divorce Day” is considered to be the most popular day for couples to initiate divorce proceedings. Below we explore the potential reasons for this and considerations if are you are thinking of separating. 

Why does January see more divorce enquiries?

It is fair to say that most family lawyers see an uplift in enquiries at the start of the new year and this can be for a variety of reasons. The festive period can be very stressful, both financially and emotionally. For couples who are already struggling, this can only exacerbate issues. Many also see the New Year as a fresh start, so addressing relationship issues and taking steps to separate may be on the list. 

For couples with children, separating just before Christmas is not an attractive option. Couples may therefore decide to stay together until the festive period is over. Many solicitors see a rise in enquiries in the lead-up to Christmas. Clients want to take legal advice about their rights, but then wait to take formal action until the New Year.

Other issues impacting the decision to file for divorce

According to the most recent report published by the Office for National Statistics there has been a decline in the number of divorces. In 2022 there were 80,057 divorces granted in England and Wales, a 29.5% decrease compared with 2021 and the lowest number of divorces since 1971. We do not know the exact reason for the decline, however the cost-of-living crisis may have influenced people’s decisions to divorce. 

A Legal & General study in 2025 found 272,000 people have delayed their divorce due to the cost-of-living pressures. Although 2024 saw interest rates and mortgage rates decrease slightly, the cost-of-living pressures remain. Potential clients are becoming increasing reticent and concerned to initiate proceedings, with many taking advice and then telling us that they want to sit tight, believing a divorce or separation to be ‘unaffordable’ at the moment. Creating two households out of one seems unaffordable for many. 

What to consider if you are thinking of separating 

Making the decision to separate, whether now or in the future, it extremely difficult. Getting divorced is not only a legal process, but also is an emotional journey and you should ensure you have the right support in place. 

You should consider obtaining legal advice as early as possible. Taking legal advice does not need to lead to separation or divorce, but arming yourself with the information so that you can prepare yourself for this eventuality can be empowering, whatever way you decide to go, knowledge is power after all. Ensuring you also have emotional support is important. Whether this be family or friends or looking to a professional for support, for example a therapist or divorce coach. The emotional toll of a divorce should not be underestimated. 

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When to formally separate 

There is no one size fits all approach. What is right for you may be different to someone else, and it is important to take the process at your pace. Some people choose to emotionally separate but not formally move apart and deal with their financial arrangements. This arrangement is often something that we would advise against. Whilst some may believe that they would prefer to wait until asset values increase, this can be a false economy. Certainly, once a couple (or even one party) has made the decision to separate, staying in a marriage or relationship at that stage can be very claustrophobic and stressful, and can also seriously impact the mental health of children involved in the midst. It is true to say that this arrangement will also only work if there is complete trust between the separating couple. 

Delaying formally separating may also give one party the chance to change the financial position, for example over-spending, moving money out of reach etc. It is crucial to deal transparently with financial disclosure in the event of a financial separation and divorce. Delaying formally separating may make it much harder, and much more expensive, to unpick the truth and work out what a true representation of any financial outcome ought to be.

Prolonging the inevitable might not be the best financial decision in the long term, particularly if pensions need to be divided. We have seen drastic fluctuations in pension valuations recently. Whilst that of course affects everyone across the board, formally sharing pensions on divorce sooner rather than later at least provides some certainty to the recipient party that they have full control of their share of what is often the most significant asset of the marriage or partnership, after the family home, even in a volatile market.

How Edwards Family Law can assist

As family solicitors we are mindful of the pitfalls that come with waiting to separate, which we will discuss honestly and transparently with you. However, what is right for you and your family is a decision for you to make. In the event that we are instructed to assist, our aim is to advise pragmatically from the outset to try to preserve a good working relationship with the other party and/or their solicitor, and give advice that is sensible from the outset in terms of preserving your costs position. If, therefore, one of the big concerns is proportionality in dealing with the case sensibly and cost effectively, and that is what is putting a potential client off from formally actioning their separation, we can certainly assist.

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